I want to discuss an universal fact (I suppose) here, that why it is said that “A man wants to be a woman’s first love, a woman wants to be man’s last romance.”
Lets come to men first: I suppose every man likes to have a girl of good character, so that he can go anywhere without much tension by keeping his wife or partner alone. At least he won’t have to worry about her character. Being the first man of any girl, as per my experience, the girl will keep loving you forever as it is believed that first love can’t be forgotten. Well that’s the nature of man, as he wants to be the first person of a girls life.
Now coming to women: so according to this, women has their own mentality too. She may accept the old relation of her husband, but she has to be the last and undying love interst of her husband.
If there is one question for which every woman wants an answer is what men want. This question crops up in the mind of every woman, be it be a teenager going on her first date; a newly wedded wife getting ready for her husband to return from work; a single woman waiting to find the right man; a divorcee trying to rebuild her life.
WHY? Why are men always in a superior position. We know sex before marriage is a sin, but we do this. Ok, both the sexes do it, but why is it a small mistake in case of men & why it is considered to be a sin in case of women. Men are taking their virginity and are not ready to marry such a girl. Why? She won’t restrict us as she think her life with us at that time, and we gift her such a gift!
Well, the question is here that if the man wants to the women’s first love, don’t the women wants to be the man’s first love also?
As per my opinion this is not an universal concept, the fact is all men and women wants to be her/his partners first love, not only first love, but also the only love.
